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I Love the (Wilton) Nightlife!

Like the towering flames and the hundreds of glittery pink lights outside Cactus Rose’s façade, there’s a bright spot lighting up our town’s center.

I’ve got this quirky bad habit, nothing major, but my husband and friends laugh at me when I do it.

When referring to any trip into Wilton’s town center, I sometimes call it “going downtown.

Wilton may be a lot of things, but the town that claims it’s still a “semi-rural village” doesn’t exactly have a ‘downtown.’

Over the last several years, there have been store openings and closings; national chains and mom-and-pops alike have come and gone; and cutesy boutiques have popped up next to sleepy roadside antique shops.

But suddenly, there’s a new phenomenon seen in these parts unlike anything I’ve seen before within our town limits: Standing Room Only.

In the last two months since it opened, Cactus Rose has been swarmed with couples on date nights, families, girls’ nights out, cute couples out on first dates, and…wait for it…people who don’t live in Wilton.

And with Bianco Rosso, the hip new pizza and wine bar that opened just a few doors down on Old Ridgefield Rd., it’s the closest Wilton has come to a “Restaurant Row” in years.

Doesn’t that phrase just make just make you tingle?

I haven’t yet been to our town’s new Italian in-spot but I have savored a few meals at the Cactus Rose cantina. I know I’m not the only patron who has enjoyed it because it’s often really hard to get a table. Thank goodness they have a space where you can sit and wait until your table is ready. I know it’s something we’re not that familiar with here in Wilton, but it’s something people elsewhere call a “bar.”

Now that we do have one (that serves muy buena margaritas) it’s often packed late into the evening.  Perhaps people are coming because Cactus Rose offers something new on the scene. Maybe it’s because the space has a little flair and zing—the open kitchen framed with flame-red walls and yellow and orange mosaics give the place a fast-moving feel that matches the beat-beat-beat pulse of the music.

But people seem to stay for the food; for the most part I’ve heard mostly excited raves, and I’ve enjoyed just about everything I’ve tried there. Above all, their guacamole is spectacular. Just the right amount of cilantro and lime zest and it’s a must-order every time. (I even order an extra helping to go at the end of the meal, I can’t resist!)

I’ve eaten there with my parents, my husband and kids, and my girlfriends. We’ve shared appetizers, tasted new dishes and enjoyed the service. Owner Katerina Pertesis has always greeted us warmly and makes sure the kids are happy. Contrary to what some people think, they do have a kids menu, offering kids’ sized portions of their steak, chicken breast and quesadillas—just ask.

We’ve eaten well each time we’ve been there. I’m not usually a fan of seafood with cheese, but the lobster quesadilla was pretty amazing. We loved the smokey seafood cocktail—tangy and nicely spicy—and have generally liked almost everything we’ve ordered, including truly sinful desserts, like the oh-my-god-I-need-to-take-a-moment quatro leche cake (sp. mention crunchy pepper jelly doughnuts, my next addiction waiting to happen).

Our only complaint? I wish they’d put a basket of chips and salsa on the table after patrons are seated. It certainly wouldn’t be cheesy—something tells me Executive Chef Lisa Varnberg would never let the house salsa be anything but out of this world—and it would go a long way to making everyone feel even more right at home.

Speaking of which, I can’t wait for balmier days—that outdoor patio and fireplace look like the place to be, watching the sun set over a delish margarita. Salud!

Cactus Rose, 5 River Road, Wilton 203.762.8484

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Phillip Maim January 30, 2012 at 01:53 pm
I'm confused.
Last week you were "the Face of the Unemployed" This week, you're digging the wild Wilton nightlife, dining numerous times at its trendiest restaurant. Margaritas and fancy desserts... While life doesn't stop when a spouse loses a job, something here doesn't appear right.
Deb January 30, 2012 at 02:15 pm
Phillip, I thought the same thing. When you're writing an opinion piece, people want to believe it's your true opinion, and that is how you grow a following. Either the unemployment article is not entirely true, or the restaurant piece is not entirely true. It's not my business how others choose to spend or save their money, or even what they write about. But perhaps fiction is more her forte?
About Cactus Rose, I agree with everything written. We were there last week and had amazing drinks and great food. And I loved the atmosphere and decor. We'll definitely go again.
Sarah January 30, 2012 at 03:22 pm
I hate to say it, but I agree. I am also the face of Wilton's unemployed and though every story and situation is different, we are not going out and enjoying the new scene due to expensive food and the cost of babysitters. This is our reality. I related to your article when you talked about worrying that people were not asking you to go out and feeling the day to day pressure and sadness. It does feel like a disconnect if you are indeed able to enjoy these luxuries. I think most are not able to, so be thankful that you can. I understand all too well that you need these little times and splurges to not let the situation completely take over, but in the process of sharing, I now cannot relate.
Geoffrey Day January 30, 2012 at 03:28 pm
Heather, it seems that being "the Face of the Unemployed" entitles/obligates you only to stand outside these restaurants with your hand out and your mouth shut. Tough audience - muy comprensivo, no? No.
Heather Borden Herve January 30, 2012 at 05:12 pm
It may FEEL like life stops completely with job loss, the reality is it doesn't. That's part of coping with it. It’s complex and contradictory—some days you want to curl up; some you just want to feel normal. Should everything get cut? Maybe my kids should skip a friend's birthday to save buying a gift. Maybe we don't deserve a moment of relief to forget reality for 1 hr.
Luckily, my parents treated us twice to dinner to give us a pick-me-up; two other times I had a bite with friends. All told, I spent $50 over two months. (Not to justify, but for perspective.) As a writer in Wilton, I need to find stories where not much news breaks. If a new business opens in town, that IS news, when people are talking about it, and especially when it supports new business here (in my ‘fledgling’ career, I've written more than once about business closure here too). Life isn't black and white. It doesn't stop with job loss as much as it can feel like it does. I try to not let it color every moment in life and sometimes I write about happy things. Timing wasn’t in my favor with when these pieces appeared. But that’s life. I guess I found the answer whether there is judgment and assumption about how unemployment SHOULD look. I'm sorry that my job to write about things happening in town didn't fit into your idea of how I should live with unemployment. There's depression and fear, and there's also trying to make as much normal as possible. The truth is, there's both.
EMR January 30, 2012 at 05:20 pm
sorry Heather for using that word...
keep up the good work!
Heather Borden Herve January 30, 2012 at 05:24 pm
thanks EMR. appreciate it.
Michele Bennett January 30, 2012 at 07:29 pm
Sad that you need to defend your right to eat in a restaurant - it's no one's business how and who paid. Are you expected to eat Ramen every day and stop grooming as well? Thank you for your honesty. And yes, while your column is in the public domain, people should use a bit of common sense and sensitivity when commenting.
EMR January 30, 2012 at 07:30 pm
Phil,
anything constructive you want to say or are you just here to take up space? Heather...good job...look forward to seeing your next town update!
Heather Wilcauskas January 30, 2012 at 09:48 pm
I simply appreciated the fact that you were able to use the words "Wilton" and "nightlife" in the same sentence. You don't see that often:)
ETP January 31, 2012 at 01:17 am
HB & Family: Keep on keeping your chin up...life is good and it even gets better.
EMR January 31, 2012 at 01:22 am
i guess it's ebb and tide with the nightlife. we are on the upswing now....
Heather Borden Herve January 31, 2012 at 01:28 am
thanks, Ed. It's much appreciated!
Kenneth J. Dartley January 31, 2012 at 05:19 pm
Perhaps people would be happier with " DUSK LIFE"
Steve March 8, 2012 at 07:08 pm
My wife and I have eaten there and find the food to be OK and the price high. I won't be going back and I try to support the locals - I am looking forward to Portofinos coming back. I also really like Bianco Rosso - that place will make it.
HRH - I enjoy reading your articles
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Publius Redux June 17, 2013 at 03:38 pm
A simple truth: when those who call Christ as King do that which He has commanded, we realize thatRead More none of us need the government's handouts, which is just a 'slave to the lender' mindset.
Ronnie Raygun June 17, 2013 at 09:32 am
never forget Newtown...!! (RNS) Each Father’s Day, Neil Heslin and his son, Jesse Lewis, usedRead More to go to a car show. But that tradition died when 6-year-old Jesse was shot and killed at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn. This Father’s Day, Heslin, who has been active with other Sandy Hook parents in pushing for gun control legislation, is giving his support to the No Father’s Day campaign. Speaking at a media teleconference to launch the campaign, Heslin said, “Jesse was my only child, my only immediate family. I don’t have a father to share Father’s Day with.” Initiated by PICO National Network’s Lifelines to Healing Campaign, the campaign asks participants to send e-cards to Congress, urging passage of legislation to create universal background checks and end gun trafficking.
Ronnie Raygun June 17, 2013 at 09:32 am
(RNS) Each Father’s Day, Neil Heslin and his son, Jesse Lewis, used to go to a car show. ButRead More that tradition died when 6-year-old Jesse was shot and killed at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn. This Father’s Day, Heslin, who has been active with other Sandy Hook parents in pushing for gun control legislation, is giving his support to the No Father’s Day campaign. Speaking at a media teleconference to launch the campaign, Heslin said, “Jesse was my only child, my only immediate family. I don’t have a father to share Father’s Day with.” Initiated by PICO National Network’s Lifelines to Healing Campaign, the campaign asks participants to send e-cards to Congress, urging passage of legislation to create universal background checks and end gun trafficking.
Sanchez June 17, 2013 at 10:27 am
Exploiting dead children for your political points is disgusting and vile. Given the poster thereRead More can be no surprise about such.
Publius Redux June 14, 2013 at 11:17 pm
From linked article_______ "The victims “have a financial uncertainty, they need theRead More money,” Feinberg said. “You have to say, ‘Here’s the money, here’s what we’re doing with it.’” Some Newtown families say that didn't happen in their town. Lafferty-Hassinger posted to Facebook her frustration about the United Way requiring "proof of hardship" to determine how to distribute funds: "We shouldn't have to fight for what is rightfully ours, but we won't be taken advantage of in our darkest hour," she wrote. "We've all been walking a fine line between not wanting to profit from the death of our loved ones and not wanting someone else to profit from our source of grief. We went down when we were kicked, but we are Sandy Hook. It's time to stand back up."___________ I reckon my questions are thusly: What financial uncertainty is there in the death of a child, AND since when did money that is donated privately become something that is 'rightfully' belonging to someone else due to a tragedy that is not a natural event like a tornado or hurricane?
AZ June 13, 2013 at 12:39 am
Foul! Foul! Blocking foul! What an odd sensation this false empowerment. I did not understandRead More this tingling sensation. No need to tell you about internet anonymity...Publiticus Reflux.
Cathy June 14, 2013 at 08:58 am
Where is the concern for the character development of our kids? Where is the concern for theRead More physical health of our kids? What long term health effects will these 'pills' have on the young - still forming bodies? Will taking these drugs have any long term side effects that can make life miser able in the future? If a 16 year old girl is being bullied into sex, is that an excuse for providing this contraceptive? Can she get on the pill ...the one that is taken profilactically - without an Rx? I think not...why the difference? Having condoms in a bowl like candy in the high school nurses office is a major contradiction to the teachings in many a home...and now this...how sad. Childhood gets shorter and shorter....
AZ June 14, 2013 at 12:44 pm
Reality is minors have sex. As for character development, I would rather my 16 year old daughterRead More continue her development without an unintended pregnancy. If your child child is being bullied into sex, having sex regularly and not talking to their parents, or having to get condoms from the school nurses office as if they were like candy....you as parents have missed the boat and the the ship of parental guidance has set sail long ago.
EMR June 10, 2013 at 12:19 pm
Call the National Broadcasting Corporation (NBC). They might know ;-)
B Chacon June 10, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Hah @EMR Good one!!
B Chacon June 10, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Hah @EMR Good one!!