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School Calendar Woes—You do the Math

For the second year in a row, a storm wreaked havoc with Wilton’s school year. Columnist Heather Borden Herve joins other parents who want school and town officials to consider making a few changes—but on one option, school administrators say, ‘No.’

I love my kids, but I want them back in school already.

It’s not because I don’t want to spend time with them—I do. I just prefer it to be during non-school hours. But for the second year in a row, we’ve been “blessed” with an overabundance of time with our children when they were actually supposed to be in school. 

Thanks to Hurricane Sandy, our kids have already lost six days this year; adding insult to injury, this was followed immediately by no school on Election Day. Once again, to make up for days lost due to inclement weather, we’re potentially facing a longer school year or shortened vacations—and oddly enough, we have to consider this before we’re even one-third of the way through the school year.

In fact, as of this, our 12th week of school, there have only been five weeks that the kids went to school for the full five days so far (after Sandy and all the religious and federal holidays).

That’s a lot of interrupted learning time. Those six days have serious impact, whether you’re a beginning reader who needs cumulative consistency to develop literacy skills, or a high school teen whose in-school time is so important, they are often penalized half a letter grade for missing a day of class and snow days can delay sending transcripts to colleges.

When our curriculum is geared toward “teaching to the test,” every minute students are in the classroom counts in order to wring out a bit of teaching beyond the test.

And it’s not even winter yet. Anyone want to place bets on how many more snow days we’ll get this year? Considering the white stuff on the ground today, merely one week and change after Sandy, it doesn’t look good. I really do like Superintendent Gary Richards very much, but I’d prefer not to hear his voice so frequently on the other end of the phone. I bet he feels the same way about having to make those robo calls to me too.

But lo and behold, just when we finally get the kids back in the classroom, next week’s school calendar shows they’ll have reduced time to actually learn while they’re there.

Beginning November 14, the students will have six straight half-days at school before Thanksgiving break. Why?  Parent-teacher conferences, which means two more partial weeks, less in-class learning time, and more inconsistency. From past anecdotal and first-hand experience, I know the time kids spend in class those days is often less-focused work time; with snack, specials and “Mom, we watched a video today!” time, we’re compounding the lost days of Sandy with less quality education.

Conferences—what should be changed now, but won’t be.

In the last several days, an email campaign from parents to the Board of Education and the superintendent went viral. Many parents pushed the board and Dr. Richards to consider postponing conferences. I’ve spoken to several parents who are upset about the lost time, and want the administration to make changes to get back some of those lost days. One such Wilton parent is Carrie Tobias.

“To me it’s two things. It’s getting rid of these half days. And it’s encouraging the school board to be more flexible and more creative in finding solutions. Clearly, the weather is changing and we’re going to keep dealing with this situation,” she told me, adding that several surrounding school districts figured out how to bring students back for school on Election Day despite originally scheduling it as a  day off.

Wednesday evening, Dr. Richards posted a letter to parents on the schools’ Edline website in response to the many emails. He explained why, despite “fully appreciat[ing] the expressed concerns about resuming a normal schedule…we need to ‘stay the course’ at this time and proceed with parent-teacher conference days as scheduled.” The letter said administrators understand the parents’ frustrations and did take the matter seriously. Richards wrote that they were unable to open schools on Election Day because of a request from CT’s Secretary of State; the letter also stated that the issues will be addressed as they plan for the 2013-14 school year.

The overriding theme of the letter is that parent-teachers conferences are important and it explained why school officials think they shouldn’t be cancelled. But that’s missing the point many parents are trying to make.

No one is suggesting that conferences aren’t valuable or important; it’s clear they are both. But perhaps we could find another option to talk about how our children are learning at a better time that doesn’t interfere with them doing the actual learning. Here are a few alternative ideas to start off the conversation: 

  • Hold conferences on Election Day. It’s currently a working “professional day” for teachers, so perhaps it’s a good alternative for conferences instead. The Weston school district originally scheduled their conferences on Election Day, but coincidently, decided post-Sandy that bringing the kids into school for in-classroom learning met educational objectives more directly than talking to parents.
  • Hold conferences after school. My son’s third grade teacher scheduled her own parent-teacher conferences in early October to find out from parents what they wanted her to know about their child. She was able to meet with every student’s parents in a week of after-school meetings, without impacting any time in the classroom. That’s also how they did it when I was in school, so why can’t we do that now?
  • Hold fewer conference half-days.  There are currently five conference days. Sometimes, teachers are able to schedule all their conferences on the first four days, leaving the fifth day clear. At the very least, perhaps we could aim to limit the number of half days to three?

I spoke with Bruce Likly, the chairman of the BOE, to express my opinion about the issue. He said the Board received emails from “several dozens” of parents about it. He stressed that the ultimate decisions about school closings and the calendar are technically up to Dr. Richards and his principals.

Likly was very receptive to discussing it. “Believe me, as a parent I hear and feel [what you’re saying], and I hear it and feel it as a board member. The Board challenged the superintendent pretty persistently, to look for options and alternatives to address parents’ concerns, and to look at the pros and cons of not only putting kids back in school on Election Day, but also of eliminating or delaying the conferences.”

He said administrators did weigh things very carefully before saying no. “I respect the fact that Dr. Richards and the principals have felt and heard the parents’ pressure. Quite honestly they’re making a hard decision that will create more heat for them, but they’ll take that heat because they feel it’s the right decision for the kids of Wilton. I really respect that because they were pushed hard. They were standing up saying, ‘I hear you but we think this is the right thing for your kids.’ That’s part of the reason we all moved to Wilton. We have a top performing school district because we have good educators, and we have to respect their position as professionals.”

Election Day and keeping schools open

This year and last has shown us just how valuable each day of school is. I wish the administration had been more flexible about adjusting the schedule and had called students back to school on Tuesday after the six-day Sandy break.

My friend, Carrie, put it this way: “When school is cancelled, Wilton parents are expected to change their schedule on a moment’s notice, within an hour to find alternate child care, and yet the district cannot do the same for us. I find that arrogant.”

Unfortunately, the decision about Election Day 2012 has come and gone. But turning attention to the long term, how can we make future Election Days an in-school day. Can we look at an alternative plan for moving polling places to other sites in Wilton that won’t interfere with student in-school days?

What about having the polls at Comstock? At Trackside? At the Wilton Y? At Town Hall? At WEPCO? There are other alternative locations in town that could accommodate the traffic, parking, and polling facilities outside of three Wilton schools, and that are centrally located.

This decision is something that the Board of Selectmen would need to review, in consultation with the Registrars and the BOE. But the time is now to start making that change happen.

Like politics, we’ve got to look for compromise, and better collaboration.

The administrators—especially Dr. Richards—don’t have easy jobs. It can be rough-going to make difficult calls like this, knowing that many people won’t be happy. I know their intentions are in the right place, and they’re smart educators who truly believe they are making choices in the best interest of educating our children.

But…

In the words of the administration, one of the benefits of conferences is to “promote the involvement of parents in their child’s education as they provide parents with the opportunity to talk directly with their child’s teacher.” It’s ironic that, in the aim of promoting collaborative talk between parents and educators in the learning process, at least on this issue the administration isn’t integrating what they’re hearing from many parents who believe what’s in the best interest of their own children—recovering lost school days with actual classroom time.

So, how can your voice be heard on these (and other) topics?

“I do want people to know that their input is critical, and I’m going to do everything in my power to listen to it,” Likly said. “But unfortunately sometimes I feel like my hands are tied in how I respond. If it comes into us, it’s not going to fall on deaf ears.”

Likly strongly encouraged parents to write emails letting the BOE and superintendent know how they feel, and to come to Board meetings—the next one is on November 20, at 6:00 pm in the WHS Professional Library, 395 Danbury Road, 2nd floor. There is opportunity for the public to speak to the board at the beginning and end of every meeting, and they are always eager to hear from parents.

Editor's Note: The November 20 meeting's start time was changed to 6 p.m., according to Bruce Likly.

Heather Borden Herve November 9, 2012 at 06:45 pm
Some feedback and thoughts people have sent me since this story was published:
1. Late afternoon, early morning or even evening conferences would also help working parents--many of whom are dads (sorry for the stereotype, but it's often true in Wilton) would have a much easier time attending conferences. One friend told me a nighttime conference would allow her husband to attend for the first time ever in six years. 2. I was forwarded an email by a parent whose child's Miller Driscoll teacher had asked that parents shift their conference times to all fit on three days. This is not an isolated situation, as I wrote above. The teachers already try--and CAN--consolidate conference times to fewer days. This one class has teachers who already will only have three days of conferences. What happens on those other two? 3. It seems that union rules and contracts do NOT preclude teachers from holding conferences outside of normal student hours. I have heard from teachers and others that many WPS staff would welcome after school conferences as standard procedure, and they would especially appreciate getting the lost days of Sandy back into the calendar now. If you feel strongly about this, please consider letting the district know your thoughts in these comments or through the email addresses I provided in the story above.
Wilton Teacher November 9, 2012 at 09:37 pm
What makes the most sense is to hold a conference when a parent or teacher request one. This should and does happen throughout the school year. I know of no teacher who does not make the time to meet with parents when asked. I have never had the experience of a parent declining a request for a meeting. To force a meeting on a specific date, when there may not be much to discuss, does not make a lot of sense, and the half days are disruptive.
Alethiologist November 10, 2012 at 12:32 am
Canty's alias?
Alethiologist November 10, 2012 at 12:35 am
Likly is a like able guy with a huge entrenched entitled group to deal with. Not an easy task so he deserves the support of all those seeking to improve our schools and recover ground lost in recent years.
mary November 12, 2012 at 03:03 pm
All great dialogue and ideas above. Most importantly - attend the BOE meeting on Tuesday, 11/21!
Helen Waite November 12, 2012 at 04:07 pm
All this from parents who have no problem taking thier kids out of school for a week to take an off season trip to Disneyworld to avoid the lines....
Nancy Capelle November 12, 2012 at 04:19 pm
Helen, let's please be clear that there are many of us on this thread who do NOT condone taking our children out of school for a vacation nor have we ever done that.
Amy Foodman November 12, 2012 at 04:34 pm
Really Helen? I can't imagine you are talking about the same parents here. That comment is insulting.
S McFarland November 12, 2012 at 05:03 pm
Good One Helen...or that extra day on the front end or the back end of a 3 day weekend to get an extra day of skiing....Oh I mean "avoid the traffic".
Bea Taylor November 12, 2012 at 05:44 pm
Give me a break !
Hey Heather where are your plans to cancel winter recess. I'm sure that one would really get alot of people commenting....something like..."what do I do about my non -refundable vacation reservations."
Mom of 4 in Wilton November 12, 2012 at 06:52 pm
Bea Taylor, many parents do not pull our children out of class during the school year and you're darn straight we schedule vacations well in advance and according to the planned school calendar. You are missing the point of the conversation.
Wilton Mama November 13, 2012 at 06:06 pm
First of all, the conferences at Middlebrook are open to any parent - and I highly encourage everyone to request one at this time or at some time in the near future.
Secondly, I believe they easily could be condensed in the best interest of our children. In the chaos of the last weeks I had forgotten to schedule two conferences at Middlebrook. I called up early Monday morning and expected to have limited choices - ahhhhh but not so! I checked first for Thursday and there were over 8 slots available and Wednesday there were even more. I dare say that the scheduled conferences at Middlebrook could easily be condensed to Monday and Tuesday and any remaining could be moved to December during the two planning periods that all Middlebrook teams enjoy. Dr. Richards has to start leading in this school district or find himself another complacent place to live. I understand that it is comfortable for him here, but we expect more from him, his office and our elected Board of Education. You do have a job to do and saying that your hands are tied is disappointing at best.
Worried Momma November 13, 2012 at 06:57 pm
Heather
Just so you know making the conference days into full days does not reduce the number of days the kids have to make up. If the kids are in school for a half or a full day it still counts as a day. You will be gaining "learning time" but you will not be reducing the number of days the kids have to make up.
Heather Borden Herve November 13, 2012 at 09:16 pm
Worried Momma--that's definitely something I was aware of when I wrote the original piece. The heart of the issue was about keeping the kids in the classroom as much as possible after Sandy. The total number of days of the school year is another discussion for another day, as the decision to shave days off Feb. and Apr. breaks or add days to the end of the year is the next one the board will consider to make up for lost days. But for the time being, at least we've gained a few more 'complete' days in the classroom for our kids.
I know some people still wont think we've achieved consistency in the classroom. They're somewhat right, but at this point, I'm happy as well that the administration seems to have acted based on the opinion expressed by a large number of parents. That's definitely a step in the right direction.
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:45 am
We should all move to Darien. Not on the water, because it was kind of messy after the storm, but somewhere else in Darien.
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:48 am
Are mid-terms this week too? I think the BOE should think about having so much going at once. Scheduling midterms so soon after Sandy must be really stressful. I didn't know about mid-terms. I think my kids' changed my password on parent portal and I haven't been able to log on. Does Middlebrook have midterms?
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:49 am
What's Canty's alias? Who's Canty?
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:51 am
Someone said the BOE meeting was on the 20th. Is it on the 21st? I usually drive to my sister's for Thanksgiving. Should I change my plans? I've never been to a BOE meeting. I went to a Board of Selectmen meeting once. It was kind of boring. I didn't understand what was going on. Are BOE meetings at Town Hall?
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:52 am
You can do that?
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:58 am
I am confused now. Does everyone else have the picture of the policeman with a large radar gun at the bottom of their screen? I don't really get it. I was trying to understand about midterms and parent-teacher conferences. I don't know if it's better to have the conferences before midterms or after midterms. Then someone mentioned Disneyworld. It is really crowded. I want my kids to learn things. I'm worried about conferences at night. I don't like to drive at night. It always feels like everyone has their brights on. Do you leave your kids at home? Is that safe? I read that sometimes babysitters have parties and invite all their friends. My neighbor doesn't let her daughter babysit during the week. She has too much homework. I think it would be better to have conferences at a different time of year. Not when there are midterms. Maybe my neighbor would let her daughter babysit more if she didn't have so much homework.
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 04:59 am
The schools ignore religious holidays? That's horrible.
Mary K. November 14, 2012 at 05:04 am
You are so lucky. Your teacher conferences sound like fun. No one has ever told me that my child is a delight. I guess I don't understand why it would be annoying to hear that. How long is your commute? Do you drive or take the train? What basic math facts do your kids not understand? I went to a workshop about the new math books.
wiltonmom November 14, 2012 at 11:55 am
Yes...I spoke recently with a teacher who said most teachers welcome more classroom time, because regardless of the school holidays and interruptions, they still have to teach the same amount of curriculum.
Andy Taylor November 14, 2012 at 05:37 pm
Mom of 4 ...please don't get upset with Aunt Bea. She hasn't been herself since someone stole one of her Thanksgiving pies off our window sill ( we think it was one of the CL&P guys ) Wait a minute maybe Enzo can locate it !
Alethiologist November 15, 2012 at 03:06 am
Mary K
You sound like one of those educated and informed individuals who voted for higher taxes and obamacare. Or maybe you are a bored teacher trying to ridicule parents? Or maybe you are a sitcom writer? Or maybe just...well, you know...
Connecticut15 December 2, 2012 at 12:04 pm
I have known of a few teachers who have made it difficult to meet with a student or parents when requested. Alternatively, on a some occasions, they have been a no-show. Of course, things happen and people including parents and students are busy. One parent/teacher meeting was scheduled for 8:45 am and then with little notice and no input the teacher unilaterally rescheduled it for 7:15 am. Unprepared, she was surprised that the parents showed up. This was not respectful but was indicative of how the year would proceed.
Connecticut15 December 2, 2012 at 12:09 pm
Perhaps a closer look at the teachers' contracts are in order. Teachers have a universal contract and then may have a more personal one, especially if they are an instructional leader or have other responsibilities.
It appears that the last contract stated that teachers are required to be available, working, a total of 1.5 hours in some combination before and after school . There may be other presiding conditions that regulate conference times, meetings, administrative meetings. They are entitled to various periods throughout the day free of work or classroom instruction. It may be that the only way to accommodate conference availabilities is during the work day and not have them extend well beyond the 1.5 hours in the contract.
Connecticut15 December 2, 2012 at 12:15 pm
Conference times are important check points. Going beyond November for them may put students and their learning at risk. In fact, doesn't 3 months after school begins for a check point seem a bit long? We have learned of students who were struggling with test/assessment results confirming it, but the parents were not made aware until November conferences. We would hope that teachers would not wait until then to alert parents so that they could work together toward addressing the students' challenges, but that was not the case. Time was wasted and the student's confidence and skill sets were negatively affected.
Connecticut15 December 2, 2012 at 12:21 pm
To all parents of elementary school students, please make certain that your child's tests/quizzes/assessments come home for you to review. Unless those items come home, you will not be aware of what areas if any your child may need more focus. Yes, there was a time at Miller/Driscoll where the decision was made that teachers were not to send home test/quiz/assessments - they said they did not want the parents to know what the students were not learning in the classroom - this would help them assess the teachers better. Wouldn't it be appropriate for all corrected tests/quizzes/assessments be returned to the students for study?
Alethiologist December 2, 2012 at 01:16 pm
Hmmmm, do you think maybe the teachers just didn't want to deal with parents questions? Wouldn't it be better if parents know what's going on and reviewed homework with their children?

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